Trust, and Try

Written by Shaina Gold on . Posted in Dating

Whenever my friend and I have a ladies’ night out, we always end up in some type of philosophical conversation. Most recently, we got to talking about whether we had become complacent with being single. Should we make more of an effort when it comes to dating, or should we just put our faith in G-d?

To Mind or Not to Mind the Meddlers

Written by Editor on . Posted in Dating

A Reader Asks:

 For the past three months, I have been dating a wonderful woman with whom I see strong potential for a future. As our relationship has become more serious, family members on both sides have voiced their disapproval, suggesting that we are not a good fit. I am close with my family and really want their support. Am I blinded by this relationship and missing warning signs? Should I ignore my feelings and trust my family members’ perspectives? Should I fight for this relationship?

Tips for Making your First Date Lead to a Second Date

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A Reader Asks:

 I go out on many first dates and often get turned down for another. I wish my dates would at least give me a second chance. Am I doing something wrong? I know first impressions are important, but are they the only thing that matters? What can I do to improve my overall chances of at least landing a second date?

A 'Hands-Off' Approach to Dating

Written by Rachel Burnham on . Posted in Dating

A Reader Asks:

 Although I did not grow up a religious Jew, I became more religiously observant over time and have been practicing shomer negiah (not touching the opposite gender until marriage) as an adult. I have been dating a man for eight months, and it’s going well, but I broke shomer negiah with him a few months ago. I feel badly, but think we have a stronger relationship because of it.

Breaking Free From Emotional Enslavement

Written by Rachel Burnham on . Posted in Dating

Amidst the hustle and bustle of pre-Pesach preparations, we find ourselves preoccupied with cleaning, shopping, and cooking. It’s that time of year again, when we think of slavery, freedom, four cups of wine, miracles, and — of course — that long-awaited fresh springtime air!

Unmasking the Hidden Gem

Written by Rachel Burham on . Posted in Dating

A Reader Asks:

 Am I the only one who feels like there is nobody to date? I am a 29-year-old single; I have dated the people potentially suitable for me in my area (and several beyond!) and none of those relationships worked out. I do get additional suggestions, but they are mostly out of left field and are not what I am looking for. Does my bashert (soulmate) even exist? Any suggestions on how to move forward? I feel like I’ve hit a brick wall.

Birds of a Feather or Opposites Attract?

Written by Rachel Burnham on . Posted in Dating

A Reader Asks:

In my dating life so far, I have looked for someone with a different personality from mine because everyone always says “opposites attract.” Recently, I have found that I connect more easily with those that are more similar to me. Is there an approach that can lead me to a healthier and more lasting relationship?

Penny Short and Pound Foolish

Written by Rachel Burnham on . Posted in Dating

A Reader Asks:

I often find myself scrambling for ideas of where to take a girl out on a date, mostly since finances are tight but I want a girl to feel special and appreciated. My finances also impact my ability to travel for dating, to afford dating websites, dating events, and how I dress on a date. Perhaps most importantly, I’m self-conscious about how I’m perceived by the girl I’m dating and my confidence in being able to provide for a wife and family someday suffers. What can I do to maximize my dating success with limited finances?

When It Comes to Dating, Is It All ‘Location, Location, Location’?

Written by Rachel Burnham on . Posted in Dating

A Reader Asks:

I often hear from friends, family, and well-meaning neighbors that I should consider moving to a larger dating scene, such as Israel or New York. They believe that my opportunities for finding a match would be greater there. I have a great job, family, a support system, and a community I love where I’m currently living. Is the grass really that much greener on the other side? Am I selling myself short by not moving?

10 Tips to Making Dating Events Work for You

Written by Rachel Burnham on . Posted in Dating

I recall the overwhelming feeling of walking into yet another singles event. Here we go again! The nerves, the anticipation: Who will be there? How do I look? Will this just be another one of those events where I put myself out there and once again leave empty-handed?

The Heartbreak of Dating with a Disability in the Jewish World

Written by Ariella Barker on . Posted in Dating

Eleven years ago, I appeared in front of the Rabbinical Council of America to gain their permission to officially convert to Judaism. The Rabbi asked me one pointed, unforgettable question: “As a goy, you are able to marry most anyone in the world. Why would you convert and limit yourself to less than 2 percent of the population?” For me, the answer was simple. I only wished to marry a Jewish man and to raise my children with Jewish values. If I remained a goy, I would be unable to marry anyone. Alas, over a decade later, I am still unmarried.